See also the Shulchan Aruch (Even HaEzer 156:6) and commentaries, which mention other opinions regarding whether this ruling applies when the prevailing presumption is that the man is childless, when the prevailing presumption is that he has brothers, or when witnesses testify that he has brothers. and he frees his wife from [the obligation of] yibbum or chalitzah.
Still, even if the prevailing presumption is that a person has brothers, his word is accepted if he says that he has sons. The rationale is that, in this instance, his statements are not contradicting the prevailing presumption, but rather introducing a new factor (Beit Shmuel 157:9). Similarly, if he says that a person presumed to be his brother is not his brother, his word is not accepted.
If there was no prevailing presumption that he has brothers, but a rumor becomes circulated5There is a difference of opinion among the Rabbis whether or not this rumor has to be substantiated in a court. The Maggid Mishneh interprets the Rambam's opinion as being that even a rumor that is not substantiated should be taken into consideration. Needless to say, in the contemporary era, when communications have advanced and travel is easier, this question is far less significant than in previous ages. that there are witnesses who will testify that he has brothers, but these witnesses are overseas, the woman must take this factor into consideration and wait until the witnesses who were mentioned come, and are asked [concerning the matter]. [This ruling applies] even when the husband says, "I do not have a brother" at the time of his death.
In this context, the commentaries draw attention to the Rambam's ruling in Hilchot Terumot 8:14, which states that when a priest had relations with a woman and she became pregnant, she is allowed to partake of terumah for the sake of her child. This indicates that we assume that she was impregnated by that priest.
As indicated by the Rambam's wording in Hilchot Terumot and in Hilchot Issurei Bi'ah 15:17-18, the matter depends on the woman's reputation. If she is known to be promiscuous, we consider the possibility that she was impregnated by another man. If, however, everyone presumes that she engaged in relations only with this man, he is considered to be the father of the child (Maggid Mishneh).
Nevertheless, the Shulchan Aruch (Even HaEzer 156:9) quotes the Rambam's wording without making this distinction. See the Beit Shmuel 156:15. How is it possible to know with certainty that this is his son? There is no prevailing presumption to that effect.
The matter thus remains one of doubt, and the more stringent perspective should be taken. Hence, his wife [is obligated to] perform chalitzah,8Lest the child have been fathered by another man, and the deceased in fact be childless. and she [is forbidden] to perform yibbum.9Lest the child have been fathered by the deceased, in which case relations with his brother would be prohibited.
Even the testimony of a servant or a woman, or statements of a gentile made in the midst of conversation are acceptable with regard to the death of a yavam, as they are acceptable with regard to a married woman whose husband has died, to enable her to be permitted to remarry, as mentioned in Hilchot Gerushin.12In Hilchot Gerushin, Chapters 12 and 13, the Rambam explains that the testimony of one witness is accepted in such instances, because:
When the matter can be verified definitively without the testimony of a witness, and the witness cannot justify [his statements] if they are not true - e.g., when one testifies that a person died - the Torah did not necessitate [that the requirements of formal testimony be met in these instances]. For it is unlikely that a witness will testify falsely.
For this reason, our Sages [extended] the leniency with regard to this matter and accepted the testimony of a single witness that is based on the testimony of a maidservant, [testimony] from a written document, and [testimony] that was not investigated by the ordinary process of interrogation. [These leniencies were accepted] so that the daughters of Israel will not be forced to remain unmarried.
The laws of the testimony governing the death of a yavam are the same as the testimony [governing the death of the woman's husband] with regard to disparities between the statements of the witnesses and all other matters.
Even if the woman actually remarries, at which point it would be likely to assume that her husband is dead, her yevamah is still prohibited. Our Sages feared that a woman would risk ruin in both this world and the next, in order to cause her foe to be forbidden to her husband.
The woman who does not have a witness supporting her, by contrast, is permitted [to remarry], for a witness has testified that her yavam died, and her own testimony is accepted with regard to the death of her husband.17See Hilchot Gerushin 12:15.
If there is another living brother to perform yibbum, he should perform yibbum21Or chalitzah. with both of them.
Similarly, the testimony of a yavam is not accepted with regard to the death of his brother, and it is not considered to be sufficient basis for him to marry his brother's wife. [We fear that] perhaps he desired her.
Similarly, a woman's testimony is not accepted with regard to the death of her sister, and it is not considered to be sufficient basis for her to be permitted to marry her sister's husband.26It is forbidden for a husband to marry his wife's sister while his wife is alive. Our Sages feared that the second sister or the husband may desire to give false testimony, so that they can marry. [By the same token,] a man's testimony that his wife has died is not accepted as sufficient basis for him to marry her sister. In this instance, it is necessary that two witnesses testify that one sister has died before the other sister can enter her household. For the testimony of one witness was accepted only so that license to marry could be granted to a woman who would otherwise be forced to remain unmarried, as we have explained.27I.e., generally, the testimony of two witnesses is required with regard to matters involving marriage and divorce. As mentioned in the concluding passage of Hilchot Gerushin (cited in the notes on Halachah 6), in order to allow a woman to remarry, leniency is granted and we rely on the testimony of one witness. In this instance, however, there is no difficulty in the man's or the woman's remarrying; the only difficulty is that they cannot marry each other. In such an instance, our Sages were not willing to extend leniency.
[There is a slight difficulty when comparing the Rambam's statements here to his statements at the conclusion of Hilchot Gittin. As explained by the Noda BiY'hudah (Even HaEzer, Volume I, Responsa 27 and 33), the Rambam's wording indicates that, according to Scriptural law, with regard to a point of fact that can be verified, it is not necessary for two witnesses to testify, and the statements of one witness are sufficient. The leniency granted by our Sages was to accept the testimony of women, relatives and others whose testimony would not ordinarily be accepted. Here, however, the Rambam is stating (as he does in Hilchot Edut 5:2) that the acceptance of the testimony of a single witness is a leniency of Rabbinic origin. (See the Responsa of the Rivash, Responsum 181.)]
If, however, she and her husband depart alone, and she returns and says: "A yavam was born for me overseas, but he died," her word is accepted, regardless of whether she says "My yavam died, and then my husband died," or "My husband died, and afterwards the yavam who was born for me died." [The rationale is] the source for the statements [on which basis the woman was] forbidden [states that she is] permitted.30The prevailing presumption when she departed was that she would not be obligated to perform yibbum if her husband dies. It is only because of her own statements that we might suspect that she is required to do so. Therefore, her statements are sufficient to offset this suspicion.
If she says: "My son died, and afterwards my husband died," her word is not accepted as the basis for yibbum.31We suspect that perhaps she is lying in order to marry her brother-in-law. Nevertheless, we grant a certain degree of credence to her words,32I.e., were it not for her statement that her son died first, she would be permitted to marry without any restrictions. Because we give her statements some credence, we require her to perform chalitzah. and she should perform chalitzah, but not yibbum.
If she says: "My husband died, and then the son who was born to me died," her statements are not accepted as grounds to free her of the obligation for yibbum or chalitzah. Nevertheless, we grant a certain degree of credence to her words, and she should perform chalitzah, but not yibbum.33I.e., were it not for her statement that her son died after her husband, she would be required to perform yibbum. We do not accept her word to the extent that we allow her to marry without restrictions. Nevertheless, we give her statements some credence and forbid the performance of yibbum, lest in fact there be no obligation to do so.
If this is not the situation, she may not perform chalitzah, lest she perform chalitzah and then witnesses come and confirm her statements that her husband died first. Thus, it will be evident that this chalitzah was unnecessary, and she [is permitted to] marry a priest. An observer may see that she performs chalitzah and then marries a priest, and he would think that a priest is permitted to marry a woman who performed chalitzah, for he is unaware that witnesses came. Therefore, she should not perform chalitzah, nor should she perform yibbum.37For according to her testimony, she is forbidden to do so. Instead, she should remain under the obligation to perform yibbum as she was when she departed, until witnesses come [and clarify the situation].38Note the discussion of this ruling by the Beit Shmuel 156:17, and the opinion mentioned there that this ruling applies only when there were witnesses who testified that the woman's husband and son both died. Otherwise, the woman's word would be accepted based on the principle of migo - i.e., if she desired to lie, she could have said that her son was still alive.
Why should she not perform chalitzah nine months after the death of her husband, in which case she would be permitted to marry another man from any standpoint? If the other woman bore a child, that frees her of all obligations. And if the other woman did not bear a child, she [should be permitted, because] she performed chalitzah.
[Our Sages prohibited this] as a decree, lest after the woman performed chalitzah, it become known that her husband's other wife bore a viable child. This woman will then not be [bound by the prohibitions of] a woman who performed chalitzah, and she may marry a priest despite performing chalitzah. An observer - who did not know about the witnesses [who informed her of the birth of her husband's child] - might conclude that a priest is permitted to marry a woman who performed chalitzah, and he will testify that a Rabbinic court gave her license to marry a priest. Therefore, if she was forbidden to the priesthood at the outset, she may perform chalitzah nine [months after the death of her husband and] she may marry another man.
The wife who accompanied her husband when he died should wait 90 days, as other yevamot.40See Chapter 1, Halachah 19. Thus, she may perform chalitzah or yibbum. She need not worry about [the possibility of] the wife in the country [giving birth], for that woman was not in the same country as her husband.41We do not consider the possibility that the woman was impregnated by her husband before he departed on the journey and did not realize this until he had already departed.
The same concept applies when a woman's husband dies, and her son is living overseas - she need not suspect that her son died [before her husband's death]. Instead, we allow the prevailing presumption [regarding her status to continue].
[More stringent rules apply if she was told: "Your son died and then your husband died," and on that basis she performed the rite of yibbum and then discovered that they died in the opposite order. She is obligated to leave her second husband. All the children she bore him - both those born before she received this notice and those born afterwards - are considered illegitimate.47For her relations with her brother-in-law were prohibited by a transgression punishable by karet. The fact that she violated this prohibition unwittingly does not change the status of her children.
הלכות ייבום וחליצה פרק ג
א) האומר, זה בני, או שאמר, יש לי בנים -- הרי זה נאמן; ופוטר את אשתו מן החליצה, ומן הייבום. [ב] אמר, זה אחי, או שאמר, יש לי אחים -- אינו נאמן לאסור את אשתו, ולהניחה זקוקה ליבם: שהרי זה מתכוון לאוסרה, לאחר מותו.
ב) [ג] היה מוחזק שיש לו אחים, ואמר בשעת מיתתו, אין לי אחים -- אינו נאמן; וכן אם אמר על מי שהוחזק, אין זה אחי -- אינו נאמן. לא היה מוחזק באחים, ויצא עליה קול שיש שם עדים שיעידו שיש לבעלה אחים, והעדים במדינה אחרת -- אפילו אמר הוא בשעת מיתתו, אין לי אח -- הרי זו חוששת, ותמתין עד שיבואו העדים שאמרו וישאלו.
ג) [ד] מי שזינה עם אישה, בין פנויה בין אשת איש, ונתעברה, ואמר, זה העובר ממני הוא, ואפילו היא מודה לו -- אף על פי שהוא בנו לעניין ירושה -- הרי זה ספק לעניין ייבום: כשם שזינת עימו, כך זינת עם אחר, ומאיין ייוודע הדבר שזה בנו ודאי, והרי אין לו חזקה; אלא לעולם ספק הוא, ולהחמיר דנין בו -- וחולצת, ולא מתייבמת.
ד) [ה] נאמן עד אחד להעיד ליבמה שמת בעלה, ומתייבמת על פיו; או שמת יבמה, או שניתן לבעלה בן להתירה לזר. ואפילו עבד, או אישה, או גוי מסיח לפי תומו -- מעיד במיתת היבם, כמו שמעיד לאשת איש להתירה, כמו שביארנו בהלכות גירושין. [ו] וחמש הנשים שאין מעידות זו לזו שמת בעלה, כך אין מעידין לה שמת יבמה; ודין עדות זו, כדין אותה עדות, לעניין עדים שמכחישין זה את זה במיתת היבם, ולכל דבר.
ה) [ז] שתי יבמות שבאו ממדינת הים, זו אומרת, מת בעלי, וזו אומרת, מת בעלי -- זו אסורה מפני בעלה של זו, וזו אסורה מפני בעלה של זו: שאין יבמתה נאמנת להעיד לה שמת יבמה, כמו שאמרנו.
ו) [ח] היה לאחת מהן עד שמת בעלה -- זו שיש לה העד, עומדת באיסורה: שאינה אסורה מפני בעלה, אלא מפני יבמה. וזו שאין לה עד, מותרת: שהרי העיד העד שמת יבמה; והיא נאמנת לומר, מת בעלי. [ט] לזו בנים, ולזו אין בנים -- זו שיש לה בנים, מותרת; וזו שאין לה בנים, אסורה.
ז) היה להן יבם אחר כאן, הרי זה מייבם לשתיהן. [י] מת זה היבם שייבם אותן -- אסורות להינשא לזר, כשהיו בתחילה. נתייבמו ונתגרשו, הרי אלו מותרות לזר.
ח) [יא] אף על פי שהאישה נאמנת לומר, מת בעלי, ותינשא, או תתייבם -- אין היבמה נאמנת לומר, מת יבמי, שתינשא לזר: הואיל והוא איסור לאו, שמא יהיה קל בעיניה. וכן אין היבם נאמן לומר, מת אחי שייבם את אשתו -- שמא עיניו נתן בה; ואין האישה נאמנת לומר, מתה אחותי -- שתיכנס לביתה. ואין האיש נאמן לומר, מתה אשתי -- שיישא את אחותה עד שיעידו שני עדים שמתה אחותה, ואחר כך תיכנס לביתה: שלא האמינו עד אחד אלא משום התרת עגונה, כמו שביארנו.
ט) [יב] לפיכך האישה שהלכה היא ובעלה ויבמה למדינת הים, ובאה ואמרה, מת בעלי ואחר כך מת יבמי, או שאמרה מת יבמי ואחר כך מת בעלי -- הרי זו אינה נאמנת; אבל אם הלכה היא ובעלה בלבד, ובאה ואמרה, ניתן לי יבם במדינת הים ומת, בין שאמרה מת היבם ואחר כך מת בעלי, בין שאמרה מת בעלי ואחר כך מת היבם שניתן לי -- הרי זו נאמנת, שהפה שאסר הוא הפה שהתיר.
י) [יג] האישה שהלכה היא ובעלה ובנה למדינת הים, ובאה ואמרה, מת בעלי ואחר כך מת בני -- נאמנת, שהרי הייתה בחזקת היתר לזר. אמרה מת בני ואחר כך מת בעלי -- אינה נאמנת להתייבם, וחוששין לדבריה; וחולצת, ולא מתייבמת.
יא) [יד] הלכה היא ובעלה בלבד, ובאה ואמרה, ניתן לי בן במדינת הים, ומת ואחר כך מת בעלי -- נאמנת ומתייבמת, שהרי הייתה בחזקת היתר ליבמה בעת שהלכה. אמרה, מת בעלי ואחר כך מת הבן שניתן לי -- אינה נאמנת לפטור עצמה מן הייבום ומן החליצה, וחוששין לדבריה; וחולצת, ולא מתייבמת.
יב) [טו] במה דברים אמורים, בשהייתה פסולה לכהונה מתחילתה, כגון שהייתה גרושה או חללה, או שאמרה במערה היינו כשמתו. אבל אם אין הדבר כן, אינה חולצת -- שמא תחלוץ ויבואו עדים ויעידו שהדבר כמו שאמרה והבעל מת תחילה, ונמצאת חליצה זו אינה כלום; ותינשא לכוהן, ויראה הרואה אותה שחלצה ונישאת לכוהן, וידמה שהחלוצה מותרת לכהונה, והוא אינו יודע בעדים שבאו: לפיכך לא תחלוץ, ולא תתייבם, אלא תישאר בחזקת זקוקה כשיצאת, עד שיבואו עדים.
יג) [טז] וכן אישה שהלך בעלה וצרתה למדינת הים, ובאו ואמרו לה מת בעליך -- הרי זו לא תחלוץ, ולא תתייבם לעולם, עד שייוודע אם ילדה צרתה, או לא ילדה. ולמה לא תחלוץ אחר תשעה חודשים ממיתת הבעל, ותהיה מותרת לזר על כל פנים -- שאם ילדה צרתה, הרי נפטרה זו; ואם לא ילדה, הרי נחלצה: גזירה, שמא ייוודע אחר החליצה שילדה צרתה ולד של קיימה, ונמצאת זו שאינה חליצה ותינשא לכוהן אחר שנחלצה, ויאמר הרואה שלא ידע בעדים שבאו שהחלוצה מותרת לכוהן, ויעיד שראה אותה נישאת לכהונה על פי בית דין. לפיכך אם הייתה אסורה לכהונה מתחילתה -- הרי זו חולצת לאחר תשעה, ותינשא לזר.
יד) אבל זו הצרה שהייתה עם בעלה כשמת -- תמתין תשעים יום כשאר היבמות, ותחלוץ או תתייבם; ולא תחוש לצרתה שבמדינה האחרת, הואיל ולא היה בעלה עימה במדינה.
טו) [יז] האישה שמת בעלה, והייתה לה חמות במדינת הים -- אינה חוששת שמא ילדה חמותה, וכבר ניתן לה יבם במדינה אחרת: שלא גזרו בדבר זה; אלא נעמיד אותה על חזקתה, והרי היא מותרת. והוא הדין לאישה שמת בעלה, והיה לו בן במדינה אחרת -- הרי זו מותרת לזר; ואין חוששין שמא מת הבן, אלא העמד אותה על חזקתה.
טז) [יח] יצאת חמותה מעוברת -- הרי זו חוששת, ולא תינשא לזר עד שתדע מה היה סוף עיבור חמותה, שמא נולד לה יבם, קודם מיתת הבעל.
יז) [יט] האישה שהלך בעלה ובנה למדינת הים, ובאו ואמרו לה, מת בעליך ואחר כך מת בנך, ונישאת, ואחר כך נודע שחילוף היו הדברים -- תצא, והוולד כשר; אמרו לה, מת בנך ואחר כך מת בעליך, ונתייבמה, ואחר כך נודע שחילוף היו הדברים -- תצא, והוולד שנולד לפני השמועה או לאחר השמועה ממזר.




